dancer

[Kirki]

i have a friend who would like to become a pole dancer in Blackpool (England). She has no previous experience but is very pretty and has the right image, how would she go about getting a job?

[andy-hughes]

Good looks and a good figure are prerequisits, but so is the right attitude of mind.

First and foremost, your friend should visit a pole-dancing club to see what the girsl do, and assess if it is the kind of job she is physically - and mentally - able to do. Being leered at by stange men and paid to provide masturbation fantasies is not everyone's idea of a lifestyle, but the money is very good for the successful ones.

Granted, it's not as seedy and downmarket a way of entertainment as it was, but putting clubs in city centres and charging high prices doesn;t disguise the fundamentals of what is being offered - and consumed - any more than calling an ass a horse shortens its ears.

If your friend is keen to proceed, she needs to have a word with the manager at the cub she'd like to work in. She will probably audition with several other hopefuls who will be assessed by a dancer who will know if she has the makings of a dancer. If so, she will be trained, and then employed, and the rest is up to her.

[GSM7554]

she can allways pop round my house and i wiil run her through the drill,im sure i can find some sort of pole for her to dance round

[peeriesooky]

at the end of the day it takes a strong personality do be a pole dancer. I used to be one and if you are not suited to the role it can destroy you. I have seen many young girls who have the right image and are beautiful 'think' thats what they want to do. They are fine when they have their interview/audition and even for the first few weeks all is well but then when the realism of it sets in and the stigma set hold it really does take a strong woman to still enjoy it. I loved my job when i did it. I did it for a year but decided to leave to have children. If she is really keen make sure she thinks it through and that means the GOOD and the BAD. I am not trying to put her of,as i said i loved it, but it would be a shame for her to put herself through it if she is not fully aware of how it does change your life.

hope this helps and let us know how she gets on.