References

[randomsasha]

I volunteered to help with Samaritans, and got a phonecall tonight asking to go along for the training next week. The only problem is that they asked for two references. I only had one job after I left school, and have not been employed for 4 years now as I am a stay at home mum with 3 kids. I have no idea who to ask to be a reference, because it's been so long since I was at school or in work.

Can anyone give me any ideas on who to ask? And what kind of things do they have to write?

Thanks in advance.

[howlie]

Hi, Ask a couple of good friends for a personal reference (not relatives). Not 100% sure what they will ask but it will probably be along the lines of honesty, reliability, trustworthiness etc. Also, well done for volunteering. Hope you get on well.

[tboo]

Hi randomsasha
You could ask a friend or a teacher at your childrens school, basically they just have to write about your character.
Why not tell the Samaritans that you have only 1 reference, they may have come across this numerous times.
If unsuccessful then you could help out with other voluntary organisations eg at a local charity shop and then in the future you can access these for a reference.
Hope this helps

[Ice-Maiden]

Those are all good ones - or maybe your doctor, a local police officer, local midwife, etc. Hope you do well!

[VillageVicar]

I'm proud of you for offering your time. Do not be shy to ask clergy, close friends, or even possibly friends whom you don't see regularly any longer due to being a mum.

You're making a difference for our society and that's wonderful!

Thank You!

Fr Bill

[rosepetal]

Hi I work for a volunteer centre. Some organisations want references just to check that you are who you say you are and are of good character. Others may want a bit more info such as 'what are X's strengths?', 'Would X be a good team member?' and to find out how suitable you are for working with the client group in question etc.
You do not need to know the person(s) giving the reference in a 'professional' capacity - it is acceptable to put down a friend, neighbour or anyone that has known you for a reasonable length of time. Some organisations actually prefer 'personal' references, as they are from the people that know you best!
If you still have a problem finding referees, contact the Samaritans and explain the situation. Alternatively contact your local volunteering centre (see volunteering england website or DO-IT website) who should be able to offer you advice on this and also let you know of any other suitable opportunities should you not be able to proceed with the Samaritans.
A big thumbs up for volunteering! Good luck!