i would have thought that the statutory charge could have come out of her share of the sale proceeds. you can object to the order being varied - you don't have to do what her solicitors tell you! if i were you i'd go and see a solicitor at this stage though - you've tried to sort it out without solicitors, but i think you may be better off getting some advice regarding this order. also, if you phone the court, they can be very helpful, especially if you explain that you're trying to deal with the matter yourself. Her solicitor should have explained their application to you and given you a date of when its to be heard. x