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irishheart - wasnt looking for sympathy but rather some help... my days are lean enough regardless of christmas thank you very much.
thank you everyone else - luckily all sorted. the reason we were panicking is that the CSA kept saying he owed another £2000 but they couldnt advise of where from and just wanted to get him to agree to a payment plan of £200 per month...
the money that hadnt been paid by DD was still in the bank (£600) so he could pay that, but after speaking to 3 different people they just kept saying he owed more but couldnt explain from where. eventually after speaking to a manager, it seemed that it was just a clerical error. phew ! and is all paid up.