suspended from work feel alone

[BigRooster]

My wife has just been suspended from work and because of the nature of the job it needs to be investigated . Now as nothing like this has happened to us before we are finding the whole thing very stressful.
Now she been told that the meeting to discuss her suspension could be up to two weeks . She has also been told not to speak to anyone from work which makes it an even more lonely experience.
Anyone out there know how we are feeling.

[sara3]

I've been involved with internal investigations at work, indirectly. is she in a union?

[sara3]

she could contact acas http://www.acas.gov.u...x.aspx?articleid=1364

[DTCwordfan]

Has she been informed of what the accusation is....... We don't know you here so feel free to be open with us as that may help us advise......

I too have been on both sides of such inquiries.

[BigRooster]

Yes Mark.. But it's just the waiting for some stranger to agree you done nothing wrong or say you have very lonely time for her .

[DTCwordfan]

Mark?

[sara3]

Mark?

she can talk talk to people, just not people at work.

[AlBags]

Be careful BR not to mention anything 'linkable' here.
Anything here is searchable on Google. Al.

[cazzz1975]

who is mark?

[cazzz1975]

I know what you mean mark

[DTCwordfan]

Mark my words, the Ed will see this in a bad light, or is that a Rae.

[cazzz1975]

I may have just "pmsl'd"...

[AlBags]

Someone said Mark to me earlier too.
So I marked that down.

[Craftypig]

Someone marked my card today too.....

[Count-A-Strong]

C'mon people this is a serious thread. Please show A Mark of respect please

[cazzz1975]

yes I just noticed this was in law, many apologies BR, I hope this situation is sorted out in the near future x

[DTCwordfan]

As long as you don't "stain" (or is that "stan") your underwear or carpet, cazz

[DTCwordfan]

At least they should get a laugh from this, and some humour at this time should be welcome, mark my words.....

[Maydup]

Horrid time for you both Bigrooster, especially so close to Christmas. But if she's done nothing wrong she's nothing to worry about, just suspended to protect her from further accusations.

If she has done wrong then she should use the time to prepare her case and her apologies. Best to contact ACAS as Sara3 suggested and get some advice. There's still time to do that before Christmas and it'll put her mind at rest. Good luck with it all.