I'm so sorry to hear about this - this recently affected myself, in the presence of my poor 7 year old son. The event happend end of 2010 but with the trial only in 2011, still feels very fresh. I received similar injuries but penetration was obtained. There wasnt an inch on my body that wasnt bruised,torn etc but he only got charged for ABH (along with sexual assault with penetration). He got 5 years (will only serve half tho!!!, then out on licence. He has previous too which was not 'allowed' to be mentioned in court so as 'not to sway the jury'. Its a terrible ordeal and my strength is only found for my son, along with trying to help others go through the crap system in order to get some, albeit very little, justice. Please contact me if I can help in any way, talk you through each step etc. I am currently working with my MP to try and make overdue changes. Wishing you and your daughter, every ounce of strength and sympathy XXX