I have searced Answerbank and other sites and I can not find any answers to my situation.
I know people are getting fed up of Nursing Home Fees questions on this site but can I see if anybody has had experience of circumstances similar to mine?.
Miranda did give us another try and I think we made her feel welcome on here:
http://www.theanswerb.../Question1161589.html
.... but looking at her status it seems she won't be coming back now