Your friend is wrong. The agent need not say whether you've offered more or less than other offerors. Why should he? You are not employing him. And it may be entirely irrelevant anyway. You may have offered less but the vendor might think your offer more acceptable ; it may not be a question of mere figures, and often isn't. One offeror may not be as good in the sum named; you may have the cash in the bank, he might be taking a loan from somewhere or having to realise an asset, or he may simply not have enough to cover the bid and expenses, or he might be the kind of bidder who changes his mind. So don't worry. And the vendor, through his agent, will come back if he wants more.