Charged With Common Assault Domestic, First Offence. Very Scared About What Will Happen

[Kenny7]

My ex has accused me of punching her and throwing her, when in fact it was her who started to throw things at me and then ran at
Me throwing punches. She did this 3 times the first time I pushed her away and she fell into the Chen beast
Of draws (she was very drunk) the second time I did the same, but she fell over and hit her face on my window cill, causing a cut To the nose and a nose bleed. But she got Up and came at me again. This time I held on the bed and would not
Let her go until she agreed to leave my house. We had been out that night with my young son at a party. And she became aggressive over my ex wife. Her antics managed to wake both my sons, and my eldest son seen some of what happened. But she reported me a week later. After I had been sent a death threat of her son which I told her I may take to the police. I think that she reported me to protect herself. Because if I had have gone to the police with the threat I would have to bring up what she had done.

[Kenny7]

Hi again, I'm afraid this whole nightmare is just getting out of control and turning into a nightmare, since the last trial which never happen because of a double booked court. She has put her go report in and says that her septum has slightly moved. So they have raised the assault to Abh. My solicitor says that I should go to crown, but I simply can't afford it. Also still very scarred about loosing my job if I loose the case. Mine and the boys lives would be turned upside down. The evidence is still all the same, as is hers, she has made a victim statement also. Any advice would once again be greatly appreciated.