Ex Partner Speaking

[Goodman21]

my ex partner is telling everyone about the accusations she is also a witness in the case is this allowed, I haven’t even been charged and people are already accusing me 

[bednobs]

wot?

[Peter Pedant]

Bednobs is an innocent - I understand 

gottle of geer: gottle of geer - do not say ANYTHING.

No comment is a bit severe. " The police are involved and I cannot speak / I have been told not to speak"

Do NOT join in. Vitally important. 

Do NOT say - Libel that is! I will sue for  libel! because 1) you cant and 2) you are joining in.

Just button  it and wait.

[someone on tel, involved in the Mormon book scandal - selling on books Brigham Young had NOT owned - said " They tell you not to speak to the police. I know. I did and did two years" - handling stolen goods}

shush not a word

[Neveracrossword]

If this is linked to a previous post, it'd make much more sense if you told us so. And the 'is this allowed' would make sense, could perhaps be answered, if there was an  actual context!

[Peter Pedant]

god he has only asked two questions !

the stalled case in q 1 - the girl is blabbing - q2 what does he do? answer - Nothing

makes perfect sense and my advice is good.

( ay hev also been the subject of false malicious allegations and it gives you a different view of the world)

silence is golden

[davebro3]

Yes - you've not been charged, there is no "case" at present. People can say what they like - short of being slanderous.