Bullies

[auzzie]

If a child under 16 makes threats and intimidates another child under 16 at school, and you dont think the school is able to monitor the whole situation ie, getting on the same school bus, logistics etc. Can the police do anything?

[RATTER15]

Yes they can, the child can be prosecuted at this age, however I don't think this is what you want, possibly a caution will work.

[neo680]

Hmmmm! You say "under 16", but not how much under! Assume as you mention school bus you aint talking very young? Ring your local nick & ask for the local officer to contact you. If there's evidence of an offence they can certainly take some form of action. But just be careful that a visit to the bully by the police doesn't escalate the situation from "threats & intimidation" to physical action. But if it does, the law can def become involved.

[auzzie]

My daughter is nearly 14, the bully 16 (female). It has become physical in the way of pushing and shoving and threats of actual violence. The school have said that the bully will be excluded BUT she lives on our street! There are known problems at her home but that is the only information i have. My daughter is still very threatened by the girl who appears to have a very large following.

[Barmaid]

What a horrid (but all too common) situation for you all. Do what neo says and contact the local nick. There are a number of potential charges here assault, threatening behaviour, harassment. If you make a complaint it is possible that this girl will be offered a caution (if she admits it and if she has no previous), if not, the Youth Court is likely to be where it ends up. IF it goes this far you could make representations to the Officer in the case about bail conditions (ie non contact etc) and if a conviction results (which would necessitate your daughter giving evidence in court, unless the bully pleads guilty) there is the possibility of a restraining order. However, it is fair to say that all this will be stressful for you and your girl.

If the police are reluctant to get involved you will have to insist on making a formal complaint - the more detail you can give about dates, places, times, witnesses etc the better so get your daughter to keep a note.

I suspect however, your local bobby will be more than happy to help - usually the police would far rather prevent stuff happening at a later stage by nipping it in the bud.

[auzzie]

Thank you all for your answers both school and the police are co-operating.