deeds to grave giving exclusive buriel rights

[james doran]

i have had the deeds to a grave since my son was killed in 1968 in 2002 the grave was opened without my knowledge or permission and another body deposited in there when i found out the body was quickly exhumed and buried elswhere again without my knowledge or permission. the local authority and undertaker will not apologise or accept any responsibility, can anyone help?

[bednobs]

what o you want help with? The "extra" body has gone now hasn't it?

[wendilla]

TO BEDNOB I don't think this was the sort of answer that was required It was bad enough this had happened without getting this sort of reply from you .I can't give an answer but I hope someone can help.

[Ethel]

How long do the deeds give exclusive right of burial? Many are 30 years only.

What do your deeds say?

[Pea Pod]

http://www.parliament.the-stationery-office.co .uk/pa/cm200001/cmselect/cmenvtra/91/91m93.htm

[bednobs]

sorry, i didnt realise just how that answer sounded, untill you pointed it out wendilla, and i apologise unreservedly james doran.
What i really meant to say before i dashed off an answer was Could you give us some more info about what you would like the outcome to be: you want someone to say they were responsible; you want to find out who traspasseed on your plot; you just want an apology; you want to sue someone for your losses etc etc.
agian im very sorry about how my answer sounded

[wendilla]

hello bednobs I don't normally get involved in arguments on here but I just saw red on such a delicate subject and especially when the person concerned was new to the site.Glad you have apologised.

[james doran]

ethel the deeds show a period of fifty years that is up to 2018 james

[james doran]

bednobs thanks for the apology the answer is an unknown quantity, l know who did it, l need an apology, i think that sueing would be a good idea but local authorities have a damn sight more money than l have, two ombudsmen have been notified am waiting on a reply hope it doesn't take as long as those reponsible any thing else? james

[james doran]

pea pod thanks for that have contacted that ombdsman also the one for funeral directors today only , james