harsment

[blade1jet2]

been accused of damaging my ex.girlfriends car have had the police at my door asking questions as my girlfriend said it was me my father who i look after as he has had a stroke gets very scared and upset when the police call at the house i have already been down to the police station to tell them that it isnt me how can i stop this from happening as i am total innocent this is the second time the police have came to my house can anyone please help as this is upsetting me and my father

[Ice.Maiden]

If you're innocent, they won't have any evidence against you - so why worry?

[paulsmummy]

was it you that finished it or her?? was wondering cos, sometimes when somebody cannot accept it is over, they find all sorts of odd little ways to keep the other disinterested party in their life, was wondering if you jilted her, and now she cant accept it/get over it, and was making things up to somehow still stay in touch.... do u see what i mean, ...

[Ice.Maiden]

I hope you told the police this time about your father. If you offered to go to the police station, rather than have them at your door, I'm sure this'd be acceptable.
I also agree with paulsmummy, but like I said at first, whoever's done this so-called crime, providing it isn't you - you're fine, aren't you?

[paulsmummy]

a sort of emotional blackmail isnt it.... you know, if i cant have you, i shall make things seem so bad, you may come back for a bit of peace or just to shut me up, either way i win.....type thing...

[Ice.Maiden]

But people like that need to be avoided like the plague! if this's the case, blade, be thankful you're not with your ex any more!

[blade1jet2]

it was me who ended the relationship am not worried for me but my dad if the police come to the house when am not in a dad gets up to answer the door and falls has his walking is very bad thanks for your help

[paulsmummy]

i knew it.......... and let me guess, she didnt want to be finished with........ if she is playing mind games, dont go back ............. this borderlines on dangerous, they wont stop, it could end up in "well if i cant have you, no body else can" i am really sorry for your dad, its lovely u care,

does sound like u may be better off... attention seekers soon get found out, they forget eventually to be clever with detail and mess up with rage.....

hope all turns out well...

[shanx]

obvious the police have spoken to you and are unsure , so its up to you to convince them that it wasnt you , at the end of the day the police are only doing their job , and help them as much as you can, if you are innocent , it works both ways with split ups .

[luckyforme71]

it sounds like she is playing games my advice go to a solicitor and get a letter sent out to her stating to back well away off.