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[west ham fan]

Can any one advise my son he has got parental responsibility order has his sone fortnightly for weekends, my question is his ex wants to know where he is living with his new partner befor he can see them again, my son has just moved in with her (his new partner)previously the boys stayed with my son at his own place, the boys will have their own bedroom also his ex is saying that if my son has the boys then they must not be left with the new partner with out my son being there. does my son have to let her know the address, she is the type to go around and cause trouble

[redcrx]

dont you think that your son would want to know if she moved house?
of course she is going to want to know where her children are.

[bednobs]

i think it is only reasonable that a childs mother knows where the child is, and also as she presumably dosent know the new partner, also reasonable that she dosen't want her having sole custody and responsibility for the son. after all would your son let someone babysit his son who he had never met?
it is grossly wrong to use children or the threat of withdrawal of access to get your own way of things though!

[pink-kittens]

Quite right she should know where he lives, she has every right to know this regardless of whether or not your son has parental responsibility - don't forget she has that too

Why would your son want to be awkward and cause trouble by withholding this information anyway? Sounds like the last sentence of your post should be applied to him not her

[obNOXious]

When my wife leftme and went to live in Germany with her new man, I naturally wanted to know where my children were living and also to meet her new partner ( although I had every faith in my wife that she would never make a negative decision regarding my children's welfare).
She acquiesed to this request and I went over to meet the new man.
I don't like im as an individual, but he appears to be essentially honest and decent and treats my children as if they were his own, therefore I don't HAVE to like him on a personal level.
Equally, my ex-wife likes to know who i am seeing and where the kids would stay if they came to see me.
It's normal and reasonable to want to know this on both sides, so I suggest that both your son and his ex wind their necks in and get on with behaving in a way that is best for their kids.
Relationships go wrong, parenting never should.