Tell you what you are suffering from here, solicitoritus!
You and the old man both get together and sort it yourselves, please, please. All the solicitors do is wind you both up so you both spend your estate with them. Believe me after work every night they'll be having a pint and pi55ing themsleves at the latest 2 suckers. Once all the dosh is gone they'll settlt in 5 minutes, believe me. Both of you listen to the Geezer, get sensible, agree amongst yourslves and fire those kin leeches, trust me solictors ar blood sucking scum who act only for themselves, they couldn't give a thrupney about you and the old man.
If you fight each other with solicotors you both lose, big time, trust me.