ex partner on gbh charges at crown court what ill happen to him ?

[shabsnabs]

my partner and myself have a very jelous volitile relationship , when we have a drink (not all the time ) anyway we had a huge bust up a couple wks ago and i was in a bit of a state ,i called the police and got him a arrested , 1 thing i never dreamt i would do ,he,s been charged with GBH and goes to crown in october , he has done time before bout 7 yr ago for violence and has previous foe domestic violence , he cant come near my house or me till the crown date , i retrracted my statement as i was still drunk when they took it , they also have photograpic evidence of that night , will they still use this ? i love him so much , so couldnt see him go away for this , i feel so guilty , i dont wanna get back with him though , to make matters worse iv just foung out im pregnant , im so depressed i cant get out of bed , im tryin to ignore it all and just hope it goes away help

[shabsnabs]

he no replyed to evryhing aswell

[bednobs]

for him to have been arrested for GBH, your injuries must have been serious. They can continue to prosecute without your input and probably will do. there is nothing you can do except move on with your life

[shabsnabs]

i have 2 other children from a previous marraige , i dont think i could have this child , when he gets out (if he gets jail) i wouldnt want him still in my life i need to forget him and bringin up another child alone is no good , i strugle as it is with my 2 ,

[bednobs]

well have an abortion then

[shabsnabs]

exactly i would never get rid of him , and why should my life be disrupted over and over , a mean im 33 and this man has serious issues , of course i have feelings still , but he has been nothin but trouble since i met him , he,s arragont and cocky and so jelous and controlling , trying to blame me all the timr for things , well no more iv changed my number and cut off all contact with him , i just got to move on and get out this deppresion , thanks guys x

[ummmm]

I read so much on here about how long people will get for GBH. I know people who have been done with GBH/ABH over and over again...and still get off with community service.

[brenda]

Well it is not going to go away is it?

I am sorry that you are having such a rough time at the moment but , do think that for the sake of your children you need to get a grip on things . See your doctor for a start , see if you can get some counselling to help maybe.Make a decision about this pregnancy --think you have enough to handle with 2 children already.

To say that you love this violent man is pathetic -- you are not doing yourself any favours by this kind of rubbish.

If he gets sent down -- then good he is out of your life for a while -- so get organised , stop feeling so useless, get some help and move on -- forget him , you are worth more than being battered about.

All the very best.

[shabsnabs]

I aint sure eddy , im against aortion aswell , but i cant have another child my eldest is 12 , i need to get out and start enjoying my life with my kids , i dont want any reminder of this man in my life anymore,......iv been in bed for 2 wks ill , made myself ill with stress , cant eat sleep nothing , cos he was ringing me telling me loves me etc, thats when i decided to change my number , he is such an angry person ,and put me down on a daily basis , i used to be a happy confident women , now im just a wreck , he still blames me for what he,s done because i retaliated ,so.... i was neve scared of him.... to makes things worse he is a boxer , so think this may go worse for him , just if he gets a sentance a no he,s gonna lame me for the rest of his life and maybe il feel scared then , as he has a buisness. home evryhing to lose if he goes away

[ummmm]

So what. If you don't want him in your life anymore why are you worrying about him?

[brenda]

shabsnabs-- you are doing it again --worrying about his business and his home.These things are not your problem -- he should have thought about this before he started getting handy on you with his fists.

[shabsnabs]

yeah i know your rigght , he deserves whats comin to him ,thanks