Eccles is right - when the heart comes into cooking with good ingredients, technique and imagination, it can be sublime, be it a 3* Michelin, a 1*, a local gastropub, a beach café or even one's own kitchen, then it can be sublime. In addition to the food, there is the wine, the location and occasion, and one more very important ingredient, people.
The French have a word for it that doesn't easily translate into one word in English and that is "Degustation"......a word that encapsulates all the elements......
I'm actually feeling quite sorry for your view, Krausse, you are missing out on one of the great pleasures of life.