divebuddy - //Sure, you feel sympathy for a few of them, but the majority (as seen on the programmes) are miserable excuses for human beings. They just leech off the rest of us and have absolutely no intention of ever doing a day's work if they can avoid it. They give those who deserve benefits a bad name. //
I think there are sections of society where 'things happen ... or not'.
These people are not in control of their lives, they have no input into their circumstances, they lack the ability to take charge and make changes.
Personally I try to override my initial anger, and see beneath to the miserable individuals who have slipped through the cracks of life, and really don't know how to change their lives, or even see that a change is needed.
That has to be a sad way to live.