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bobbie - // To Andy Hughes, I wasn’t very keen on your comment about Gloria Hunnifords late daughter. I have you lost a child? If not you are lucky. I have lost a child, you can’t ever forget. I mention him often, so sorry that you feel that way //
I am sorry to hear of your loss, and I cannot imagine how painful it must be.
But to be clear, obviously I would never for one moment wish to take away any bereaved person's chance to take comfort by discussing their lost loved ones, that is absolutely a normal and natural part of dealing with the situation.
If Ms Hunniford does discuss her lost daughter with her family and close friends, then that of course is beyond criticism, and neither I or anyone else would never know a thing about it.
My objection, and I have voiced this several times when her name crops up, is her dreadful habit of turning on-air conversations around to her own loss at inappropriate times.
The most obvious was the time Linda Bellingham's husband, recently bereaved, appeared on Loose Women to discuss his late wife.
An indecent few minutes into the conversation, the immortal lines "I remember when we lost Caron ..." were uttered, and hey presto, suddenly the story was not about the guest and his recent loss, but her own tragedy from years ago.
No let's be clear, I don't think for one minute that Ms Hunniford's loss was any more or less tragic, but the guest was invited to talk about his late wife, and Ms Hunniford's hi-jacking of the conversation, and indeed any conversation in which she can bring up the subject of her late daughter, on television, is inappropriate attention-seeking behaviour, and someone should have a word with her about the dignity of grief in private.