Some parents are scared to tell there children the truth - eg like the red hair girl, she was obvioulsy so spoilt - her parents just buy her things and tell her how good she is, in everything she does... Im 29 weeks pregnant with a girl, and im hoping to get her into ballet from the age of 2/3 but if its something she really dosent enjoy as she gets older id never push her to do it. I understand what ur saying - parents should be more truthful and say - "Hunny maybe joing the netball team is something u might be abit better at" lol x