Very sorry to hear about your Mum pussnboots.
I really admire your sister Patricia - it takes a special person to make a good social worker.
Having said that, we had an aquaintance who was a social worker manager & I can tell you, that at home, she was as weird as they come! She also kept marijuana in an Oxo tin in the kitchen cupboard & often got it out & rolled up in front of us, her friends & worst of all, her teenage children! We were quite surprised given her occupation, but she didn't bat an eyelid!
As I say, she was aquaintance - not a 'real' friend of ours!