No disrespect to women but it is a sad fact that women get a very raw deal from mechanics/ garages compared to men, in fact the deal normally ends up being a scam. In all the years I've been driving I've lost count of how many women that have been lied to about this and that, needs doing. These are women that I have crossed paths within the different workplaces, family, all sorts of situations.
Some have even been told that they need new engines, gearboxes the list is endless, why because a lot of women have little knowledge about cars, and some men, but mainly women.
They also tend to go into panic mode simply because they need that car for work, school runs and can't do without it, no sooner the garage / mechanic says we will start on your car now before anyone else's and get it back to you next day that then puts them into happy mode and will accept any following bill.
With the sky rocketing cost of living at the moment things can only get worse. People have to find more ways of making money, and some will do it in whatever way they can, and your feelings or hardship won't come into it.
If you have a problem with your car, ask friends and family first if you have such, or other people you know for advice. Don't just agree to have work done without checking.