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Why the emphasis on looks?
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People seem so caught up in how they look, how others look & who looks better than who, why is this?
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The last time I got caught up in this debate, I was slagged off by men on here for 'tar brushing' them, because men have always been cruel to me about my looks. No lies. I did not deserve the cruelty by some.
02:05 Tue 08th May 2012
Can't sleep either joanne?
It's the way of the world. Trying to keep up with the Jones's. As far as I'm concerned it's a job to keep up with myself sometimes. I've had times in the past when even my cash bounced. I was so hard up.
Now I'm happy and contented and if people don't like the way I look or dress that's their problem. I'm fed up with reading about people spending thousands on a meal or pair of shoes when there is so much poverty and suffering in the world.
It's not sour grapes on my part. Just doesn't seem fair that's all. OOPS. I've gone away from your original question. Sorry.
Really must go to bed now.
It's the way of the world. Trying to keep up with the Jones's. As far as I'm concerned it's a job to keep up with myself sometimes. I've had times in the past when even my cash bounced. I was so hard up.
Now I'm happy and contented and if people don't like the way I look or dress that's their problem. I'm fed up with reading about people spending thousands on a meal or pair of shoes when there is so much poverty and suffering in the world.
It's not sour grapes on my part. Just doesn't seem fair that's all. OOPS. I've gone away from your original question. Sorry.
Really must go to bed now.
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Very interesting topic yes, I am 5 pounds heavier than when I married in 1975, wear a size 8/10 dress size, have fabulous legs and a great personality, but am in no way 'conventionally' pretty (well not since age 4 at least) I have learnt that my inner beauty shines out to those who know, thus excluding any shallow natured sorts. I can say I have been loved and am loved and am confident now in myself.
think i must have some kinda mental defection i cannot for the life of me understand emphasis on looks, mama i agree with you an inner beauty is very attractive & is always something i look for in a mate & am luckyto have at the minute, but what i mean is why are people always in a rush to talk about both their own appearance & other peoples, to me it is irrelevant, of course dressing well, personal hygiene are important but the emphasis on oh i'm this slim, oh i have pretty eyes, we can see that why keep talking about it, it smacks of insecurity to me, i'm obese & aethestically challenged & i don't care one bit what worries me is other people : 0
I am sorry that I may have upset a few people but, its just what attracts me to the opposite sex.
Some men like over weight women with big bust but, I prefer slim ladies with small boobs.
I cant see the problem with that as everybody is different.
Some ladies prefer well built muscle type males, some prefer slim guys, so whats the difference?
It would be very boring if everybody preferred the same type and build of the opposite sex, dont you think?
Some men like over weight women with big bust but, I prefer slim ladies with small boobs.
I cant see the problem with that as everybody is different.
Some ladies prefer well built muscle type males, some prefer slim guys, so whats the difference?
It would be very boring if everybody preferred the same type and build of the opposite sex, dont you think?
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