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I understand andy's point, but it's pretty much like saying 'as someone who isn't a bigot or a zealot, it's difficult for you to understand the actions of bigots and zealots'.
I can't really argue with that, but it doesn't mean I can't be critical of how they behave when I'm appalled by it.
I'm not sure what jno's point is, but if I had to guess I'd probably summarise it as 'Look, this is what they do when you provoke them, so don't provoke them'.
My problem with that is that there's no condemnation of the reaction, as if we should just accept that's how it will always be. All the blame is placed on the provocation.
It's actually a bit patronising - as if they're crocodiles or something that can never know any better, and we should just make sure we don't go near them or upset them by prodding them with stick.