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I've got to say, I've always found the whole idea of child benefit a bit odd on the basis that having children is a personal choice and therefore the parents should be paying for them, not the taxpayer....so I'm not that bothered that I will have to opt-out.
Having said that, I was perfectly happy to accept the benefit given the amount of tax I've paid throughout my working life - it was my way of thinking I was getting a bit back: if fat lazy workshy wastrels are allowed to get free money, then I was happy to get a bit of my tax back.
VHG said some couples refuse to tell each other how much they earn. If this is true, then I'm truly flabbergasted - if a couple don't divulge this most basic of information to each other, then they shouldn't really be together. In any event I'd be surprised if the data protection thing is true - Mrs Flop was done for speeding a few years ago and she was required to provide a household income figure. But even if it is true, this is a pretty easy fix.
It should be based on household income - the system coming in is just simply not fair. As somebody earlier in this thread said, the person earning £60,001 is not receiving any child benefit, but is paying for the child benefit of a couple earning £49,999 each. This is just bonkers.