Why do we bother having a legal system in this country? Apparently being arrested or charged in this country equates to guilty. If I was any man in this country, in this day and age, I would be wary about having sex with anyone for fear of retribution or regret. Mud sticks as someone else said...... until he is found guilty by a jury, they should not be allowed report his name. Who's gonna give a vote to a man accused of raping a couple of boys.
The reason people joke about these things is because it makes it a little less of a bitter pill to swallow. You have to be able to laugh at everything, if genuinely find no humour that may be offensive to someone, fatties, gingers, blondes, men then you have grounds to complain. male rape is bound to make men feel uncomfortable so larking about is perfectly normal surely.