Bizarrely even this argument over whose roles in WWII are the most significant perhaps explains why we aren't going to get over it for some time yet. There's so much about the war that demands study, that shapes too who we are as a nation. If World War One killed a generation and reshaped the role of Women in Society, then World War Two possibly destroyed the old Britain entirely. Afterwards we could no longer hold on to, or claim to hold on to, our Empire, so we lost our leading role on the World stage to America and The Soviet Union. Perversely, even Germany, despite all the hundreds of thousands of bombs we dropped on it gutting some of their old cities, rose very quickly again and now is at the head of the new EU.
If you follow the Andrew Marr (and others) school of thought then effectively the biggest casualty of the Second World War was the British Empire. So it has shaped us as a nation, made us smaller and made us feel smaller. As a result we need to turn to all of the good times of that dark era, when for a time in 1940 the only thing standing between Hitler and conquering Europe was Britain, and its lifeline from America. It's something we can still cling on to. And, yes, as can be seen, it's something that the older generation don't want to let go of just yet. AOG's, and svejk's, and others', apparent refusal to credit the Soviet Union for its significant role in final victory is some evidence of that.
From my perspective the three most significant moments in the European war would be:
- the Battle of Britain, when mostly British (as well as ANZ, Canadian, Polish and Czech in particular) pilots stopped Hitler from finishing Western Europe off;
- the Soviet victories in 1941 and 1942 that broke the back of the Axis army and paved the way for victory;
- and perhaps El-Alamein when the Western Allies started to win too.
This is of course far too simplistic and overlooks events in the Atlantic, or Enigma, or bombing, or D-Day, or goodness knows what else.
It's worth remembering that in 1942 the German Army of by then 1,300,000 that attacked Russia suffered ultimate total casualties of over a million, or about 80%. Such losses could never be sustainable, and probably mark the difference between a German victory and an Allied one.
If Britain stopped Hitler from winning the War, then the Russians started our winning it.