having just patched in i see that the usual suspects have jumped in with oh my gosh you are so lucky, why are you moaning, well i wasn't, i know i am, and have paid up, just as i did before. Of course i remember what it was like to be squashed in two rooms, did you think that we had a mansion when growing up, we had pretty much what all the families had, a top floor flat with no lift, with 5 sharing two rooms, so thanks for the lecture. i can't believe i am having to defend the situation of wanting to stay in my home of 40 plus years. I won't do so again believe me, at least not on this topic.