I agree tora that we don't want to see the public held to ransom by activism. I also agree that the more democratic and representative strike votes are the better for all. I think, though, that the government should at least try to engage with the unions on this. Years ago union barons held a disproportionate amount of sway, but now the pendulum has swung far too far the other way. We see also now that it is really only public sector workers who join unions as a rule, as everyone else feels intimidated.
As someone said, the unions are the big bad wolf when they are striking, until they are seen to be a potential lifeline. In other words either saviours or destroyers. And because most people are intimidated or apathetic even when they do join, then the activists hold a disproportionate influence and you get silly situations like the RMT affiliating to SARU (Solidarity with the Antifascist Resistance in Ukraine) which does no one any favours