TTT
I'm wondering whether the dearth of responses might be something to do with the fact that regular AB contributors suspect that you've posted this thread because you painted yourself into a corner on mummy's thread:
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/News/Question1442508.html
and then went hurtling around the Internet, searching for 'gay bullies'.
But aside from that - Michael Abrams makes some very valid points, but I think the thing he has not explained, is that intolerance of anti-gay sentiments is not the exclusive preserve of gay people.
TTT - as a test, you should try this amongst your straight mates (you might want to double-check they're straight to begin with - you never know these days).
When you're out with them one night, start dropping some anti-gay statements into the conversation.
You might find it surprising how many straight people now align themselves with gay people when it comes to equal rights.
I think a lot of people would be shocked that their 'Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve' sentimentality is
not shared by the general public.
Perhaps it's because (especially in metropolitan areas) lots of straight people have at least one gay mate, and it becomes increasingly difficult to simultaneously hold anti-same sex marriage views whilst being friends with gay people.