In this case you'd be correct to say "only in America", although whether it should be a criticism or not is another matter.
The fact is that shutdowns are almost implicitly designed to be a part of the US system, and in theory the threat of such a funding crisis should prompt everyone to cooperate to avoid it whilst simultaneously ensuring that no one branch of government holds all the cards. (This is also the reason that the Senate couldn't pass the budget even with a 50-49 majority in the final vote; the threshold of 60 is deliberate to ensure compromise and agreement, even with opponents, so that a party can't force through major changes on just a slim majority.)
But then, systems designed to encourage compromise don't work if both sides are moving further apart on key policy points, rather than closer together.