A well deserved BA to Old_Geezer.
“We would happily have forfeited the house they bought with hard earned money to ensure they had a well cared for old age.”
Couldn’t agree more, Mamyalynne, but what the homeowner wants should also matter.
My dad was always worried this would happen to him, and did in fact happen for a couple of weeks before his death early this year.
While I was busy researching decent care homes, my sister was advocating leaving him where he was because a) he doesn’t have a clue and b) we may get something when he goes!
I think this is yet another example of the ‘haves’ being expected to apologise to the ‘have nots.’
Own your own home, maintain it, but lose it to fund your care.
Don’t own a home, no savings or frittered your money away. Just pay the bare minimum for your care.
Maybe the fairest way would be to say that everyone is entitled to X amount for their care.
Those that can’t top it up, get a council run home. (Having been in one, I personally would rather be dead) Those that can, get to choose whether they use their own money to upgrade or not.
This may also stop the social workers exercising their far reaching powers to dump someone in a home when they don’t want to go into one.
I certainly hope it’s my children who inherit from me. Not social services.