naomi - // AH, just out of curiosity, how did you marry in a Roman Catholic church if your wife was a divorcee with children? //
My wife's first marriage was annulled by The Pope, which means that, in the eyes of the Catholic Church, it never took place, so again the eyes of the Catholic Church, our marriage is the first for both of us.
I had to attend a couple of talks with Father T to ensure that any children we had would be brought up in the faith.
Father T had some furniture from his father's study in Oxford, which were shown on the Tolkien calendar he had on the wall.
He also had two black and white portraits of the professor on his mantel piece, and when I mentioned that I had read that the professor hated having his photo taken, and avoided it whenever possible, Father T advised that Lord Snowden had requested to take the pictures, so the professor felt it would be impolite to refuse.
Father T also recounted going with his father to the palace to see the professor receive a gong from the Queen.
The professor was slim and still had a full head of hair, whereas Father T had lost most of his, and what was left was white, and he was a little well-nourished, so he constantly had to tell the photographers that he was not the professor, it was the younger looking gentleman over there!