sorry, only just came back to this thread.
What is "thrashing about", TTT?
"Are you suggesting it was better that this lad dies so the donor mafia can be correct? " i'm not even sure what that means either, but I am suggesting that in some cases, it's better (for the person as well as the people that love them!) to die, than be kept artificially alive, or live a live of non-awareness, not able to contribute to society, walk, talk, work, eat and drink independently, communicate and so on