It was my daughter, doing the looking after kids, giving her money for some basic foods. Also a neighbour helped her the same way. Zpparently she has used a lot of people the same way, the falls out with them when she shows her true colours. My D was around her house one teatime and the 20 month old little girl & boy, 3, was sat eating a few crisps & a biscuit for their tea. When they were put to bed, she ordered a large Chinese take away for herself! I could tell you a lot if horrific tales, but best not. Too upsetting. Social services do nothing!