my daughter is 12 and when I fell pregnant with her I was 17 (we are very gillmore girls.)!
During the pregnancy i obviously met other teenage mothers younger and older than moi, and I did know two who while smoked also ate very little on purpose so as to have a tiny baby. They thought that if they ate too much they would have a giant baby and not be back in their jeans at 6 weeks and because they reckoned it made it more painful the bigger the baby. I remember thinking at the time, that i couldn't believe how stooopid they were (and that wasn't just because I was a snobby grammar school girl, they were actually insane ) I also remember thinking how I would cut off my right arm to make sure my baby was healthy and to hell with whatever i had to go through.
As it was, they went on to have regular sized babies, one of whom was 2 weeks late and had to have an induction, I on the other hand delivered and 5 pound baby 6 weeks early (which was blamed on my teen ness, although all my 5 children have been prem, and the earliest one was born at 32 weeks and I had her aged 28 - I guess I'm just young at heart) and I can tell you that a tiny baby doesn't hurt any less, unless the baby is the shape of a pip cleaner, you still have to dilate to 10 cm.
I just feel that it is more evidence of how kids appear to be becomming more and more stupid and less and less clever.....? Is this true, are our youngsters all insane nutcases? though something tells me that it is probably not only young people who apply ridiculous logic to their pregnancies.
despairing and frightening, the world is truly mad.