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Ridiculous answer - young children generally have unconditional love for their parents, but an 8 month old, whilst recognising their surroundings, doesn't understand the concept of love. They, I'm sure, also understand who feeds them (in this instance Big Macs), but as the parent of a 6 month old (and a 5 year old), trust me on this, a 6 month old will take food from anybody who feeds them.
And you are so wrong it is frightening - condemnation is exactly what this woman needs. She is receiving help, she is receiving 000s of pounds worth of help that she has not earned or contributed to.
This woman has abused herself, which I couldn't give a tinker's cuss about, but she is now also abusing her children - and that is wrong, You can all hand wring all you like, but this is abuse.