Well, the present approach of shoot first, ask questions later has now been in force for 9 years, and it does not seem to be yielding any results. We are still seen as invaders and the enemyl.
It might seem a bit radical, but maybe if we didn't bomb wedding celebrations, they might not hate us. But that could be too late now.
So far there have been 13,000 "accidents" resulting in the deaths of Afghan civilians. A recent example:
// An Afghan religious leader who had been sitting in a parked car with his two young sons while waiting for a NATO ISAF convoy to pass by. According to witnesses, the fourth ISAF vehicle in the convoy opened fire on the parked car without provocation. At least 16 bullet holes were later counted on the car's exterior and Mullah Mohmmad Younas was killed by three bullets in his chest and one in his abdomen. ISAF confirmed the shooting of a civilian, offered sympathies, and said it was investigating. //
18:54 Sun 13th Jun 2010