i am sooooo stressed

[kitten_uk2]

can my week get any worse, still coming to terms with my dad being poorly, hubby keeps aving lil pops at me for crying, even saying i was crying to make him feel bad about going out sunday night. anyway he still went out (even tho im not eating,sleeping and keep crying) he went out at 6pm sun and came home 5.30am mon.then he forgot to pick our son up from school! we arent speaking at the mo, ive got too much in my head to start the arguement about where he ended up. and now my periods late,,, can my week get any worse

[Nosha123]

Oh you poor thing....
Sending you big hugs... from another very stressed out person!!!

;-)

[CAJ1]

I read your post about your dad, I'm sorry that he is ill. I know you feel upset and you need to cry but you'll eventually be able to come to terms with it. Your dad needs you to be strong for him and I'm sure he would hate to see you so upset. Try eating a little, it won't help anyone if you get run down and ill. I'm not condoning spending most of the night out and your husband sounds like he's being a bit insensitive but maybe he doesn't know how to deal with you being so upset - have you tried speaking to him about how you feel? Your period may be late because you are so stressed.

You sound like you need some time out to clear your head, try to go for a walk or even go to the gym and take your stress out on a machine down there - you'll feel miles better for it. I hope the rest of the week goes smoothly, take care x

[logic]

Don't know what to say kiten he sounds a heartless B**tard to me.

[funnygirl]

Ain't you gone yet ???????? !!!!!!!!

And this is a first, a man sticking up for another man!!!

[legend_mark5]

Poor kitten

Thinking of you

[Sachs]

kitten, he owes you!!!
Selfish selfish man! xxx

[Barmaid]

Kitten - sounds like your week has hit rock bottom and my sympathies to you in trying to cope with a distinct lack of support.

No point in starting an argument with your husband while you are feeling so fragile. Might I suggest (its only a suggestion, please don't shout at me), trying to explain to him how you feel and how hard you are finding things at the moment. Say that you are trying so hard to keep it together and you would find it so much easier to do if you had his support (and explain to him that actions speak louder than words). Don't have a row with him at this stage since you main priority is firstly you (since how can you look after your dad and your son if you are in bits). Take only little steps but more importantly, don't feel bad about crying. It's part of the coping mechanism.

Caj is right, your period is probably only late because of the stress you are under. But if you are concerned, why not see a doctor. He will perform a test and may even suggest some mild sleeping tablets just to help you get a good night's rest. With all you have going on right now you do need your rest.

Sorry, I don't know what else to say. I have never been in such a sh!tty situation so these are only suggestions without any real knowledge of what you really should do. But all the best.

[kitten_uk2]

answer to can my week get any worse???? yes it can,,, hubby told me he was with a girl sun night/mon morn and my supervisor at work has just rung to tell me i wont be paid this week cos i dont have a passport and have lost my birth cert. and they need some id to prove im english. ( ive worked for them for 6 yrs)driving licence wont do apperently. so woh is me!!!!!