I disagree - mentally handicapped was used to describe a completely different person from one labelled ESN. Maybe it's our different perception, I'm looking at it from my teaching days (when remedial meant something else again, slow I guess). I'd be interested to hear what bednobs thought it was.
It's currently special educational needs (but this covers people who are deemed to have problems and people who are gifted) - no one is just stupid or clever anymore.
I was just looking up similar terms Woofgang. Pre-dating that we also had idiot, lunatic, imbecile, feeble minded and morally defective. All of which are now considered offensive.
The Spastics society was a well known and respected charity for many years.
If shopped at the Co-op you could use the 'spastics number' so that the charity got your 'divi' and very many people did.
I think the term 'spastic' was something entirely different. That implied physical as well as mental difficulties. 'Backward' is the term I remember - and those kids were in the remedial class.
Naomi, that may be my fault for going off topic. i mentioned "spastic" as another example of a word that had been a medical term and how it had fallen out of use and become unnacceptable.
Isn't it interesting how perceptions change with age/experience. Special needs used to mean (to me) people with learning problems, stupid people even. Thing 2 is on the special educational needs register yet he is almost precociously clever, yet thing 1 (who is 'special') doesn't get any extra help.