sayings

[ellalee]

where did butter me no parsnips come from?

[Fibonacci]

It�s a proverb, which is at least 400 years old: the first example given in the big Oxford English Dictionary is dated 1639: �Faire words butter noe parsnips�.
The link between butter and flattery is easy to understand. We have had the verb to butter up, to flatter someone lavishly, in the language at least since the early eighteenth century. It and the proverb share the image of fine words being liberally applied to smooth their subject and oil the process of persuasion. Parsnips were featured in the proverb early on because they were common in the English diet and were usually buttered before being put on the table.

[VS Prasad]

The earliest known example of the phrase dates from 1639, in the form "Faire words butter no parsnips". Anybody who has ever eaten boiled parsnips knows that they cry out to be glazed in butter before serving, and in traditional English cookery they invariably are - it is a necessary part of their preparation. The point of the phrase is that words alone achieve nothing - a person may "butter you up" with fine words, but he can't butter parsnips with them!

http://www.phrases.org.uk/bulletin_board/52/me ssages/509.html

Nigel Rees, in Oops, Pardon Mrs Arden!, quotes a stanza from Epigrammes of 1651 by a Thames waterman known as the Water Poet, John Taylor:

Words are but wind that do from men proceed;
None but Chamelions on bare Air can feed;
Great men large hopeful promises may utter;
But words did never Fish or Parsnips butter.

This shows that other foodstuffs were involved in the saying at that time � indeed there�s an example in the OED from 1645: �Fair words butter no fish�....

http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-but2.htm

[ellalee]

many thanks for all your help, my Dad ,aged 92, asked this question and he will be really grateful for all the answers. ellalee

[legend760]

i must say ive never heard that saying.
i wonder if i could use it today in general conversation?

[edgar6532]

Is it the opposite of "smoke me a kipper..."?