Check your answers to 4, 5, and 6, as your letters have sent you on the wrong tangent! 11 should be e?e?y???r?. If you think of a famous Hardy (other than Thomas), his partner (usually named first) will come to you for 6 down. Not sure about 5 down (my answer gives me H where you have N, which fits 11a), but 4 down means Darling and is [boy] followed by literal spelling of rest of clue.
9a then becomes A?i?a? Which is part of psyche + L and means Sensual (loosely!)
Further help for 11a: first ever WOMAN, mugged indicates anagram of WHY, queen = RE
14a has been answered