It is a shame - my first published cryptic was an EV (and the only puzzle I've ever had rejected was an EV too!). However, I stopped submitting to the EV when the fifteensquared blogs of two of my puzzles received no comments at all (the puzzles didn't get any mentions on the forums either). I think most amateur setters want as much feedback - and evidence that people are doing their crosswords - as they can get, and Listener/IQ/Magpie/Crossword Centre puzzles invariably seem to elicit far more reaction.