Neither party showers themselves with any glory. Both have made inexcusable and personal comments. Both should have known better. However, constantly harping on about it is neither productive nor useful. Personally, I think both sides should accept they have made inappropriate comments at one point or another and just move on.
well ! hand on heart , i never like her or him , because i dont know what sex anyone is on here , :( anyway im off to bed now . and get on with my life in the morning . nite