Thanks crofter but this doesn't fit with 35d which I am pretty sure is correct.
No end worried about them when recovering...which is
On the mend.
So I have gone with ..Other ,someone coming second ..the other.
Bit vague but all I can come up with !
I'm a bit puzzled here. When I started to write my answer offering 'other' the 1144 and 1145 responses were definitely not visible on the page. Yet mine is timed a clear six minutes later. Is there some sort of delay in displaying answers?
During all this my question disappeared off the page completely.Then it submited one post without me pressing the submit box! Gremlins at work.
Thanks for all your help folks, once again.