what if it was DilemNA? if the "and" letters weren't all together, almost like an anagram - just a thought, when I seen this posted first I thought Quandary, then realised there were too many letters so left it
A plague on this vagary,
I'm in a nice quandary -
Of hasty tone
with dames unknown,
I ought to be more chary;
It seems that she's a fairy
From Andersen's library,
And I took her for the proprietor
Of a La-dies' Se-mi-nary!