That's better, Valerie! So obvious, really. I'm amazed I didn't see that, once I'd written the first four words down. My version is contained in The Everyman Dictionary of Quotations and Proverbs.
Dear Val, the book I mentioned above has about 100 pages devoted to proverbs - with about 40 per page - in alphabetical order. This makes it very handy for the sort of question we are dealing with here! It was compiled by D C Browning and its ISBN is 1 85152 0740. Cheers