Evolution confuses me so much. I think it's one of those things where you're at the end of a long journey that was taken essentially at random, albeit with some driving forces, and trying to work out why this was the particular route taken. There may not have been a choice, but I don't think there was a plan either.
Deep voices might just be a natural consequence of testosterone. At least that's what I always thought, since it's one of the changes that occurs during puberty.