Dear Khandro,
You've really gone over the top and demeaned yourself this time.
Your attitude to jomifl is a disgrace, reveals your ignorance and now includes a major untruth!
Jomifl has been one of the most constructive contributors to this thread via his rock-solid knowledge of the scientific method, chemistry and I commend his patience although whatever he has said to annoy you is your fault for playing the fool.
You scoff at his excellent bucket chemistry model and falsely claim that it was dismissed by "the rest of the scientific cohort".
Wrong! I supported his model and believe I said it at the time (can't check back as I've started writing).
Anyway, jomifl's bucket chemistry model was an excellent model - submitted to try to explain to you and others the underlying principles of chemistry. For conciseness he left out details of the "explosive" aspect of the reaction - the release of hydrogen. This, reacts with oxygen in the air thro' a thermodynamically inevitable process, slow or quick. If quick, the result is an explosion. It is made quick by exposure to e.g. heat, be it an electric gas-oven lighter or a cigarette lighter - no lightening strike needed! It does not even need heat, a metal or other catalyst would do. His model, for simplicity assumed standard temperature and pressure - in many other conditions the reaction would have just happened.
Why the need for this trigger at room temperature/pressure?
You won't understand but here we go.
Even energetically favoured reactions often need to overcome a "hump" in the total energy change graph of the process, leading to an overall stable state (water molecules in jomifl's model) in which the potential energy is now less than the original state hence the explosion part which is the release of energy occurs as heat and light. This aspect was metioned by another contributor probably jim, beso or hypo - sorry whoever it was.
Please dont play the fool with us experienced chemists or physicists, Khandro - as you only come over as a real fool.
How bitterly disappointed I am with you Khandro. I still respect you but less than I did.
Please apologise to jomifl for your causing the spat after failing to understand what he has been trying to say as a help to you.
SIQ.