For the ABC + ABC + ABC one, clearly BBB is one of 111, 222 etc. Must be bigger than 333 since, when you divide by three, you get a three-digit number all of which digits are different, and the middle of which is the digit in the original number. I think from here it's enough to do trial-and-error on 333 - 999:
333/3 = 111 FALSE.
444/3 = 148 Works (probably could stop here, but worth checking that there is only one unique answer).
555/3 = 185 FALSE.
666/3 = 222 FALSE.
777/3 = 259 FALSE.
888/3 = 296 FALSE.
999/3 = 333 FALSE.
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9 *ABCD = DCBA. Use that sum of the four distinct digits is a multiple of 9 if the actual number is, and A has to be 1 (else 9* ABCD would be a five-digit number). Hence also D = 9, so B+C = 8. Actually 9*1111 = 9999 so that anything bigger than this won't do. Hence B = 0 and C = 8, and so ABCD = 1089.
I mean, I expect you knew how to do these, but I think they are doable for particularly keen and bright ten-year-olds, and I assume that has to be the point of the test.